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There are times that when certain languages from the original statement is deleted, the whole thing changes. Sometimes, people do it and use them to fit whatever their intent is. To set the records straight in so far as the alleged apology is concerned, I am posting the complete email that I received from her. This is in reference to her response to KotsengKuba’s question in her blog. To me, this is not an apology.
This is what’s written in her blog:
—start here — kotsengkuba asked the question —
[deleted], correct me if I’m wrong but based from my co-bloggers, it was you who started ganging up reynaelena.com on tweeter. It was also you who said you don’t line [deleted] blog because it has music but probably you don’t even know how presentable and relevant his musics on every post are and users have the way to stop it when they don’t want to. And lately, there were allegations that it was also you, you’re lawyer husband and your daughter who scrutinized [deleted] and [deleted]. it was also said that the hate comments or whatever form of writing the those were put into were deleted afterwards.
Please correct me if I’m wrong. It’s just I know them more than you and based from their side of the story, it was you who is
always starting the hate campaigns.
— start here — her response –
Author: [deleted]
Comment:
@noel- okay let me make some clarifications
1. Yes, it’s true about the twitter. I was venting but I never told my followers to gang up. If you know twitter and what it is like, it’s basically ranting. Since then it is private. I have learned my lesson.
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Reyna says: Ganging up does not have to be solicited directly. But when a blogger writes and claims she comes in peace while twittering to her followers the opposite to fan the war, why are you going to smoke the peace pipe. MALASON pa ako.
Reyna Elena attacked my daughter when she had nothing to do at all with the issue. She had a problem with me but she dragged my daughter in it. In fact I apologized and mentioned we should talk about it. There was no hate campaign.
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Reyna asks: Attacked?! I hope she knows what she’s talking about this preposterous charge. I wonder what’s the difference between I apologized and I will apologize. I will tell you. The first is already done. The second is conditional. Tell me my friends, did she apologize ?
2. regarding [deleted]. I don’t know what you mean. I just warned entrecard list users that there is music in certain sites so watch out. He wasn’t singled out. I like music but when I enter a site, I get surprised at the music so it’s my preference.
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Reyna says: And she claimed that she’s too busy to bloghop. What’s interesting is that, if one has an avatar, it’s difficult to deny bloghopping. You’re like a marked blogger when you visit a site.
3 “And lately, there were allegations that it was also you, you’re lawyer husband and your daughter who scrutinized [deleted] and [deleted]. “
I categorically deny this. I have no knowledge about this. Someone is probably using my daughter or husband in hate comments. So be careful about people who use your name. Anyone can claim to be someone in comments.
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Reyna says: Anyone can certainly change a username and email when someone responds. However, the IP address will still be the same.
There was no hate campaign. I tried to explain in an email but Reyna Elena just didn’t want to give me a chance to explain in private. Instead she posted it in public.
— end here —
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April 18th, 2008 at 4:06 am
ay may cat fight!
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April 18th, 2008 at 5:24 am
mukhang matinding gulo ito, i hope not, sana maayos din, medyo hindi ako masyadong nakasubaybay…
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April 18th, 2008 at 11:51 am
Someone should tell her that in marriage proposal, there is no consummation of marriage yet.
In the legal world, the letter is just offering a mediation.
In mediation, the intent is to find a way to settle a conflict. At this time, both parties have not reached a resolution, so any apology promised is pure conditional.
And any claim of apology is a product of inability to understand what is the significance of differentiating the tenses of the verb.
In the business world, a contract is deemed closed when the signing is done. Anything before that are just negotiations.
To put it in a simpler anal-ysis:
Parang mother na binantaan ang anak na naliligo sa ilog,
pag nalunod ka diyan, tatamaan ka sa akin.
Cat says: ang layo ng meaning noh?
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April 18th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
anong kababalaghan meron DITESH… nabasa ko yan!!! ako na awayin nyo sabi eh… isa akong pokpok sa kanto ng ermits… na ngarap ng madako sumakays sa papel kong bangka pauntang amerika tulak din ako kaya meron akong offshore account. awayin nyo ko para mag katrapik sa babuyan ko. bawal english sa comment mahirap mag translate pero ko di ka mudunong magtagalog pababasa ko na alng kay matil-DUH para maintindihan ko… eto website ko … www.mspinkbiik.com hala pumunta na kayo
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April 19th, 2008 at 6:43 am
as I read the letter i think there was an intent to settle the matter amicably BUT in terms of her condition.
You see when a person does something wrong against the other, the culpable should not be the one to set the terms. Technically speaking it should be the aggrieved party.
In your case madame reynz, there was no real intention of apology coming from the letter, just amicable settlement and I think that’s not sincerity at all. Amicable settlement is reached just to bridge between two opposing sides which is not necessarily at peace. Apology is given as an act of humility. These two are very different things.
Kung ikaw ang nagkasala sa akin tapos ako pa hihingan mo ng listahan ng mga problema natin, aba e teka muna, mukhang ang kapal naman ng mukha mo. Ikaw na ang may utang, ikaw pa ang masusunod kung ano ang ibabayad at kelan ka magbabayad?
I maybe a promdi but that letter could never ever have fooled me. Only idiots would fall for such manipulative schemes!
when she apologize it should be unconditional and not based on her conditions. Hindi lang sya ang marunong mag english at nakakaintindi ng “Logic”.
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April 20th, 2008 at 1:21 pm
ahahay mahal na reyna! ala eh, heto ba ang nang-away sa iyong kagandahan? thank you for posting, at least medyo nalinawan ang nalalabuan kong isip.
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April 26th, 2008 at 2:10 am
kaya mo yan hehehe….
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