Blatant social climbing not allowed: Do it the subtle and respectful way

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It’s back to basics social climbing lessons once again together one another everyone!Â Ladies and Gentlemen, although I prefer those maldito types! hehehe!Â Our topic?Â How to social climb the subtle way, not blatantly, rather maintaining respect with fellow bloggers. So, this is our Salmon of the Day:

How to social climb at the same timeÂ respecting fellow bloggers.

Take if from someone who never evah fight with anyone, ever! Charing! Hahahaha!

Well, I have been invited by a number of Filipino Group bloggers already. Some of them notÂ only haveÂ a good combination of bloggers, they also haveÂ impressive online credentials,Â but also topics that I likeÂ and I have been tempted many times to join. Believe you me guys, I actually appreciate those invitations. To me, it means something.

But one very clear thing I noticed on some of these invitations are that:Â I rarely see them on my site. Divanetch, nakaka-iritaciousness yon? Worst, if I see them come, they don’t even leave any footprints.

Have they even cared to read one entry I wrote? Do they know that I was the former Miss Universe trying my best to hide my identity? This could only mean many things, right? That my beautyness is insecureness! ThatÂ the topicsÂ I write has got no place at all on their group blogs. Therefore, what’s the invite for? I know maganda ako, but I don’t want to be a flower vase!!! Uh-uh! Nevah evah evah evah!

So, what kind of social climbing skill you need to do to invite a fellow blogger into your community of bloggers? Here’s what I suggest:

Know your group blog fundamentals. What does your group blogs about? You must learn your group blog fundamentals and strategies before you even venture out inviting people on your turf because you might end up not knowing what you’re talking about. By doing that, you are doing your member a great disservice.
Know your target blogger. What does he blog about? What thatÂ he/she likes to blog? What are the topics that he’s good at? How will the other members react to her/him?
Will the target blogger add value to your group blog? Or is he just going to be a wallpaper there?
If you find that he or she is a good addition to your blog: THIS IS WHAT YOUR MUST DO: read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog! read his blog read his blog! AND while you’re at it (!):
a.) Get to know him/her
b.) Try to understand what’s he’s written and,
b.) Leave some positive comments (obvious di ba? nag-so-social climb ka! tutulak ka nyan pag negative ang comment mo! tsaka mo na awayin)
c.) Make sure your positive comment is justified otherwise, tupperware ang dating mo.
Last, unless your name is MLQ3,Â Ellen Tordesillas or Mogli (eh me PhDÂ syaÂ eh! hehehe!)Â at lahat nang nakalista sa blogroll ko,Â for god’s sake!Â introduce yourself! You know French people? They HATE it if you just barge in without introducing yourself! Eh, royalty ako ano?! Kaya, ilabas mo ID at dog tag mo’t pakilala ka!

Trust me, take it from the Queen of Social Climbers! Blatant social climbing doesn’t work, pero pag pino ka, baka mamaya campaign manager mo pa yan! Bilhan ka pa nyan nang soda, uulan pa nang Php500,000 sa bahay mo.

Now, since most of my blogging yadi-yada-yada here are mostly coming from WP-Pinoys, I decided to join them! You know, berdz of the same feathers, together one another yadi-yadi-yada forever.Â Â Eto, napansin nyo?

Taz, pag-pasok ko ang bumulaga saken eh si Kengkay na numero DOZ?! HAHAHA! An lakas nang influence nitong mga to saken ever kaya mega sign up ang lola!!!

That’s why, I am here naka-abang nang sasabit nang gumamela,Â waling-waling o kahit na bulaklak nang saging, dahil I honestly have a bad and lousy attitude pag indi ako pinapansin at nagiging kudrado mukha ko.

Kaya naman, to those who invited me to join their ownÂ Pinoy Groups, please lang, wag akong babatuhin, wag akong pagsisindihan nang kandila at please wag mahiyang magpadala nang regalo saken sa berdey ko. Maki-kipag-social climb muna ako ditech sa mga WP Pinoys na to. Siguraduhin nilang me mga gwapo dyan or else, tatakasan ko sila! hehehe!!!

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31 Sweet Responses to “Blatant social climbing not allowed: Do it the subtle and respectful way”

partofyou (53 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 12:45 am
oy! afi berdi, balak ko pa sanang halikan ka sa noo eh mas matanda pala ako sa yo ng anim na taon!!!

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partofyou (53 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

e-mail mo sa kin address mo, padala kita gift, balak sana kitang ligawan eh!

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reynz (163 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

Ow? liligawan mo ako? ~*~kilig~*~ hehehe! anong regalo mo? yong TV na dinidikit nang kuritas sa dingding??? pag yun pinadala mo, first love kita ever!!!

DITOOO!:

Reyna Elena
118 Sandra Road
Voorhees, New Jersey 08043
United States of America

For future reference: Dito Address ko: http://reynaelena.com/2007/12/03/1727/

DALIII!!! BUKAS PAPARAHIN KO LAHAT NANG DHL, FEDEX, UPS at POSTAL SERVICE NA DUMADAAN SA BAHAY NAMEN!!!

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malen (14 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 1:01 am
kabisyoooooo…effort ang pag kaka copy paste mooo

hahahahhaha

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reynz (163 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

me nakalimutan ako! sandali! edit ko sya! ang hirap kamo nyan! nagkaduling duling ako kaya di ko nakopya lahat! hahaha

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lovelyn (77 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 7:17 am
aahihihiii(as always)…biglang I thought of the things I write tapos yung mga “scandal” blogs mo…nakakaluka! Btw, may nag- invite na ba sa’yu from our group, PMN(Pinoy Mom’s Network)?hahaha joke kadi!!!!

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

eekkk! PMN? teka!!! bagay na bagay ako dyan!!! me dalawa akong obaryo… nakalaylay lang nga…hehehe tanggap ba ako??? tanggap ba??? besides, Sugar Mommy naman ako ah! hehehe!

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kengkay (161 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 9:22 am
welkam na welkam ang iyong byuti sa WPP pinoys, super, naiyak ako sa ispits mo na ito. ‘pahid ng luha at singa’ magiging lalong mas masaya ang aming social climbing skills sa WPP, ahahaha.

lovelyn - here’s kengkay aka raqgold - about PMN kailangan muna ni reyna na ipatahi yung butas nyang matris para makasali sa ating mga nabubuntis, hahahah
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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

kengs! eh mas nagmukha naman akong kapal muks eh kasi majority pala nang mga rabid fans ko eh puro mga tiga WPP Pinoys! hahaha! kaya ayan, gratitudeness forever aketch kaya may i join silently para kunyari di halata! shock talaga ako nung nakita kong bida ka pala run~! buti na lang nakipag social climb na ako seyo noon pang panahon ni Vanessa Hudgens! hehehe!

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ambo (395 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 11:04 am
Tulad ng sinabi mo, nakakainis talaga ang mga ganung bloggers. makikita mo lang mukha nila nakadisplay sa widget mo pero wala man lang ni hi ni ho hehehe.

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

ditto ambo! ditto! no offense sa kanila, but i’m sure meron silang nakikita which is obvious kaya ganun ka-brash ang social climbing nila, pero sana naman medyo ni hi ni ho as basic as it is, di magawa. me mga bloggers pa nga dyan that i support pero wag na lang… off the record ko na lang ikwento baka sumabog na naman ang bungangerang balahurang pangalan nang reyna! hahahaaha

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ambo (395 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

Hmmm bayaan mo sila mahal na reyna. ganun talaga ang tao. merong maarte, me nag iinarte at meron napakaarte talaga. That’s what you call, pa sosyal bwahahahaha

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Maldito (17 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
this is soooo cooL!!!teka. ma review nga lahat ng notes at prepare WWW.com for my victory..ahehe.

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 5, 2008:

aleeen ang cool? naku ha? off topic ba to? di ko yata nagetz? tsaka makita nga tong only woman mo! ~~~LIPAD DARNA~~~~

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mogli (32 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
Tatapusin ko na nga ang WP back up ng metroblog ko para may I join na rin sa social climbing network mo! LOL!
And may I add, regarding the French people, it’s not enough to just introduce yourself. Kelangan you do it in their language or at least simulan mo ang sentence mo ng “Parlais vous anglais?” when you’re gonna speak to them in english. They hate it when one assumes they can speak english. Kahit PhD hindi umubra ang powers ko sa Paris nung makiki social climb ako sa Eiffel Tower (literally)! Hahaha!

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

HAHAHA!!! exactly the reason kumbakit ako nag-aral nang French! kesehodang kapa-kapa ako ever pero inabot ako nang dos anyos sa French na yan ano at ngayon may i not speak na ako kasi wala na akong makausap!

Mapipilitan ka talagang mag-aral nang French sa mga Pranses na to but I didn’t mind, kaya nung parati na kami sa Montreal, hada ever dahil tong mga tiga Montreal nag-e-enjoy if ever na nagpipilit kang mag pranses.

Sa Paris naman, one social climbing technique na ginawa ko is nag-memorize ako nang kanta ni Patrick Bruel in French hehehe and I remember tong kebigan ko ngang Belgian na si Yves, whenever nasa sosyalan kami, kahit sa bar, pinapakanta nya ako (hahanapin ko yong sung na yon). At dahil makapal ang mukha ko dahil sabi ko sa mga umiinom sa bar na Japanese ako, hehe, kanta naman ever ang lola.

Naku! pati mga bartender kabasag basag mga bote nung kumakanta ako nang french at mga customers nabaliw nang kakatawa, before we knew it, daming bumibili nang drinks sa table namen for free! HEHEHEHE! Try it! IT WORKS in PARIS! HAHAHAHAA

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mogLi (32 comments.) reply on January 4, 2008:

LOL…ipahiya ba ang ibang lahi! Hahahaha! Ma-try nga yan next summer! Kakabisaduhin ko yung “Bleu, bleu, l’amour est bleau…”

Nag may i learn rin ako ng french for two years pero as you said, pag walang maka-usap, kakalawangin. Besides yung first teacher ko was japanese (it was an elective language course i took when i was a japayuki in some japanese university ages ago), kaya imagine kung gaano kabaluktot ang pronounciation ng mga french words nya! I needed to unlearn everything he taught us on the 2nd year when the class finally got some hot frenchie chic for a sensei. Hahaha!
joy (10 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Hello Reynz! As usual, you made me grin. It’s always fun visiting your blog, as well as Malen’s. O di ba, first day back at my desk, nag blog hopping daw! Pano ba naman, with winter all around me, ang aking Seasonal Affective Disorder ay in full blast. Kaya mahirap mag blog hopping as much as I want.

Pero yan ang part ng resolution ko. More blog visits this year. O ano, have you booked your tickets yet to Manila this May? Email me the details. Actually, I also emailed you a few minutes back.

Have a fab weekend!

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 5, 2008:

hey JOY: according to my Diwa Travel Agent, wala pa raw sale ang May, March meron. Hmmmm….

Naku meron din ako nyang seasonal chuvalais na yan, kaya eto, bawat kanto nang bahay ko me ilaw! hahaha

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bryan (12 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 9:42 pm
kailangan talaga magbigay pugay sa mahal na reyna ha

emote mode ako lately kaya tipid sa comment

start ka nalang ng group

dali

woof!

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 5, 2008:

hey bryan, join ka dun sa Money Talk, dun na lang tayo mag-santacruzan, pera pa hehehe

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Beng (176 comments.) Says:
January 4th, 2008 at 9:56 pm
hello, ako po ay si beng na tega bandang barrio ebaks. hangad po sana kitang imbitahan doon sa bandang amin kaya lang hiya ako dahil wala akong maibot na magandang burakrak sa iyo. fwede orchids? plastik nga lang :))

psst, mga elite bloggers ba ang tinutukoy mo ditetsch?

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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 5, 2008:

elite bloggers? sino yun? akala tayo yun? di ba elite class tayo? hehehehe DIVA??? HAHAHAHA

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momel (4 comments.) Says:
January 5th, 2008 at 2:01 am
I agree. There should be some sort of ethics when it comes to prostituting our online selves.

I added you to my roll because I’m thinking of adding more gay bloggers (or at least those who share almost the same orientation) in my list.

Cheers!

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reynz (224 comments.) reply on January 5, 2008:

Hi momel,

some of those are actually nothing more than plain common sense. but then again, common sense is not so common now.

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momel (4 comments.) Says:
January 5th, 2008 at 2:03 am
Funny you mentioned the introduction part! I have a list of rules, personal rules, I keep.

Here’s a the url if you’re interested:

http://momel8.blogspot.com/2006/05/momels-take-unwritten-rules-of.html

Hi, my name’s Momel!

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reynz (224 comments.) reply on January 5, 2008:

momel,

lemme take a look at it. and thanks for stopping by!

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Misyel (17 comments.) Says:
January 10th, 2008 at 6:42 pm
Nasa WPP na pala ang mahal na reyna, ayus tuloy na sagala nito!
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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 11, 2008:

AYun nag pakilala na ako ha? eto:

http://www.wp-pinoys.com/viewtopic.php?p=8254#8254

hehehe
kiko (5 comments.) Says:
January 10th, 2008 at 6:49 pm
Wow kasali na ang mahal na Reyna sa WPP!! Inilatag na ang carpet sa iyong pagdating. Welcome!!
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reynz (4630 comments.) reply on January 11, 2008:

kiko, ayun na, nagpakilala na po ako: http://www.wp-pinoys.com/viewtopic.php?p=8254#8254
hehe!! nag-iintay nang gumamela! hahah