TODAY, Bill handed me a rather, very interesting email. Here’s an excerpt of this email:
It read like a PEACE email but it also sounded like a WARNING email to me. I thought it was an APOLOGY - but it has TWO CONDITIONS. Well, my issues are very well written in my blog and one of them is this: This woman is delusional.
What I want from YOU is this:
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I WANT TO SEE SINCERITY FROM YOUR EMAIL AS WELL AS YOUR ACTIONS ONLINE.
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I WANT AN UNCONDITIONAL PUBLIC APOLOGY, WRITTEN IN MY BLOG COMMENTS SECTION OR, ON YOUR BLOG FOR ALL THE VIEWERS TO READ AND SEE WITH PROPER LINKS.
THANK YOU.
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Nakuh, isa lang ang masasabi ko sa iyo, sister.
A. S. A.
Asa ka pa!
Napakataaaaaaaaaaas ng prideaboo niyang si mama blogiyera. Kayech nga siya naging Angelic mamoo kasech nasa heavens na ang taas ng kanyang pride. A lot of people questioned the way she ostracized and persecuted a minor pero ano niech ang kanyang reaction? Nakipagmeeting sa mag-ama, nag-make amends “daw”, sabay hirit na hindi niya ireretract ang kanyang ethical blogging statements.
You can’t go against Queen Blogiyera and her army of bloggers. Nevah! You can go ahead and be eaten alive in a million blogs of her personal mommy-minions trying! She made her twits private — para iyan she can go on with sending more sensitive orders to her minions!
What are her orders? Lutuin si Reyna Elena, gawing Fillet Mignion! O diva, at least delicious ka after… chos!
Ganyan talaga yan, sasabihin niyech peace pero deep inside she’s saying “you’ll pay for this later”.
Don’t get me wrong sister, I’m not discouraging you. In fact saludo akech sa iyech courageous stance against the Queen and her Chaka Clan. Blogger din akech, pero small fry lang under the sea na kayang-kaya lambatin at patauvin ng Chaka Clan! Di sila kaya ng powers ko!
So ang akech blog, and identity? Secret! Better to keep it that way!
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Hahahaha
Very well said, Reynz!
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ikaw run bru matulog ka na lol! tama na yang emeyl emeyl na yan lol lagpas na ko sa curfew ko waaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
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Hello Reynz,
I was consulted by the person who emailed you on how to go about your misunderstandings.
I suggested an email would be the best way to go about it. A personal email is private and will show sincerity without dragging anybody else publicly. I am a bit surprised that the gesture was still met with doubt and even brought up in public again.
I am not making side here. I just wanted to help out settle the differences of opinions minus the personal attacks, much more to people who are not directly involved with the issue. I just hope you two can come to terms in a more amicable manner.
Cheers!
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Yuga,
Sincerity is an apology without condition. It goes like saying, if i offended you, I am sorry, let us smoke the peace pipe.
Writing an email and still writing those nasty remarks in the twitter do not show sincerity. You think so.
The twitter must have been blocked but the twitter has interconnections and a non-brainer would not see that it was referring to reyna.
I am not taking her side either.
But I do not see that Reyna was using the daughter to get back at the mother.
The issue was about porn sites and the daughter was writing in a porn site.
I was the one who made the comment about the relationship between the daughter and the mother,
I find it a hypocrisy at the max when you preach about the evils of the internet and your daughter is in that “evil”.
Btw, You were the one who hinted me about some kick ass writer. And a close relative who’s a graduate in Ateneo has read the daughter’s blog. She asked what became of the graduates from Ateneo, her alma mater.
As I have said, there is freedom of expression but there are statements which should not be allowed in the internet both because it is illegal but because we have to think of the harm that it would bring to a greater number of people, the youth.
What role model would someone create if she is glamorizing a profession that is considered red light district even in the more liberal USA?
Haven’t they heard about password protected entries?
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i’m also not taking sides, but you know, one can’t just speak ill of someone publicly and then apologize in private. i believe reynz wants to be vindicated that’s why she wants a public apology. i think it’s only fair. i mean if the other person can’t handle or won’t do a public apology, then she should have thought of that before posting slanderous things about reynz on twitter.
the other person should just come clean about her mistakes. reynz, too, i believe has said some hurtful things in her anger, and she should admit that, too. and then the two of you just make up already because this fight is making reynz post these angry things and i miss reading the old clever ones she used to write! hehehe
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@visitor:
You mean I write clever articles? Hahaha! Well, I think my next article would be BLOGGERS CODE OF ETHICS. With glitters of Reyna. I think it’s very apt to the kind of personal attacks I am getting from her and her onions err minions ahhh better word is friend.
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@Yuga,
She was the one who pushed this to a personal level attack against me and not on the porno issues on the table, worst calling all her minions to have a fight with me all behind my back. That’s not fair, that’s not right and essentially strikes the BLOGGERS CODE OF ETHICS that is one of her articles, quite some irony huh? Make it a BIG irony.
We all have to protect whatever online reputation that we try to build and nurture. That’s a no-brainer.
She humiliated me publicly, therefore she should apologize publicly and not continue to hide privately. Meanwhile, while she sent me the email, the barrage of twitter hate messages continued. Where’s the sincerity?
Which is why I will not respond in private. She was the one who put this out publicly – not me.
Thank you for you concern – what I wrote in this post stands.
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Cat,
I agree. I need not expound further.
BTW, my niece is a graduate of Ateneo de Manila. We have high regards for that school – well, duh! obviously!~ hahaha! But not necessarily a high regard for those people who uses the name of the school to justify and glamorize their chosen line of work.
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Chukchak!
Hehehehe!
Pucha ka naihi ako! hehehe! napansin mo yong pagitan nong comments! Enjoyable ever ang words of wisdom mo! hahaha! honestly! masarap magbasa nang nakakatawa esp when you just wake up in the morning dahil alas sais nang am here sister at mag-a-araro na naman ang gurl – pero nakapayong naman ako!
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Ahihi-naihi! Nagatago ka ba sa likod ng pilapil nung jumingle ka?
Yung comment kech nagtago yata sa akismet, kala niya spampampam! Dyahe yang Akismet ha, pagkukurut-kurutin ko yan hanggang maging I-Kiss-Men!
Palakpak pek… este… wala pala kech nun (so sad).. palapak tenga at havacious naman ang hair ko na napapatawa kitech. Anything to make a sister in distress smile. Nawa’y ang distress eh maging “de-stress”. Nakakawrinkles ang stress, kaw din.
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@ Chukchak – Ano???? ayan nanaman ang lenguahe ng mga sirena hahaha!
“Justice precedes Mercy”.
Presidential Pardon is given after the conviction has been made and after justice is served”.
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HAHAHAHA @ chuckchak! – pangalan mo pa lang napa-praning na ako!
Bluep!- what else can i say?
TO ALL:
Be back later. It’s 7:21am now here EST, maglalabada na naman po ako! Pag ninakaw ni Akismet yong mga comments ninyo – aagawin ko na lang later which would be around 6pmEST
Hasta la vista!
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“Blogger din akech, pero small fry lang under the sea na kayang-kaya lambatin at patauvin ng Chaka Clan! Di sila kaya ng powers ko! (ChukChak)”
I totally disagree with this. Small fry/big fry? is there really a distinction? The blogosphere is for everyone. Kahit pa janitor ka.
If the awards, social networking crap or technorati authority makes you such an elitist that even the minor Carl Ocab is not spared, then to hell with all of them.
Moses was a stutter but he was able to bend the pride of the Pharoah.
Joseph was a Dreamer, but he was favored by the Pharoah.
Peter was an illiterate fisherman but he holds the keys to heaven
Mary was a 15 year old naive virgin, unnotice and unnamed, yet she became the mother of God.
Throughout history, the Lord always struck the proud with his wrath. Its not the smallness that makes you who you are. Its how you stand against the giants that builds you. If youare right fight for it. the issue is not your smallness.
Remeber that in real life and even in movies, it is always the underdog that triumphs. I suggest you read sasha’s entry about her article on “High and Mighty”. she gave such an exemplary reflection on why one should not be intimidated by awardees from the netherworld. she has a comment here that links to her blog.
I am not pertaining to anyone, yet if they would react, one word for them: GUILTY!
“kung sinong pumutak, syang nangitlog”
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I fully understand your position and thus respect that. Everyone has their own way of dealing with things and if this path is what you feel is most apt, I do hope you get it and get things sorted out.
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If I were in your position, after asking for a public apology and it was not granted….? I won’t waste another second to even blog about it.
Someone else will fight my battle…
Consider it spilled milk.
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powwow na lang kayo then drop it, that simple. hehehe!
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Hah, this issue reminds me of a lot of things. I’m just not sure what it will all amount to.
I hope all turns out well.
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@yuga,
given what had just transpired in the twitterland, i don’t expect much about getting what i want, ironically, from someone who wrote an article about Ethical Blogging and Parenting stuff, I suppose she knows what’s right and what’s wrong. If not, then maybe she’s got a 13 year old ghostwriter? Who knows.
@roni,
yeap, will do.
@c5,
it was a rather sour milk that got spilled! hahaha! but yeap, will do.
@john,
ok – i think i know what you mean. *hinahanap sa bolang kristal.
I’d like to CLOSE THIS THREAD BUT I HAVE NO CLUE! bobitang reyna.
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punyetimey naman ditech~! dami kong na-misscalculation! hanu va?! may katafusan fa va iteng giyera na itetch?! shosko, matataas ang mga praydimey nyo no?! tama na yan. inuman na lang tayo.
basta ako, wala akong kiver sa mga pangyayari… hindi naman ako matalino, hindi naman din ako artista – - hindi ko kailangan ng palakpak.. ika nga, leave na lang ang junakis alone at mag-replica na lang sa emailicious – tapos na.
hay naku, remember reyna nung sugurin mo ko.. akala ko lalaslasin mo ang leeg ketch ng korona mong me kalawang?! yun fala best friends and dating natind in the end…
so calm down, accept the apology – - and move on. ika nga, “everything that is great, everything that is beautiful – think of these things” – - kaya think of ME always ha?!
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@chuva,
obviously, you only read probably ONE word. hahaha!
Wala pong apology kaya there is nothing to accept. Sori, mali advice, hahabulin kita mamaya! pagbabayaran mo to kundi tutusukin ko manyika dito na pangalan mo.
besides, engkanto ka talaga. sinasara ko tong thread na to, pano ka nakapasok?
tawagan mo nga ako mamaya kung nasaang lupalop ka na naman humahada, nasa LA ka na ba?
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gandang umaga inay chuvs. makikisabat ako at papa-alis na akopunta review center kahit puyat.
i think its a matter of principle. knowing reynz pwede nya siguro tanggapin ang apology at hindi na pahabain ito. alam naman nati na walang makiukuha dito eh. kaya nga lang its a matter of principle. Raynz has a valid intention which she cannot disclose and I think morally its onlt commendable.
pag nalagpasan na ito siguro ieexplain nya. The teitter barage is still goin on, marami nadadamay, precisely kasi sinimulan nung isa na walang reflection man lang kung ano magiuging consequence nun .
ako amn di ko papayag na babuyin ng ganun lalo nat im just stating my opinion in yuga’s blog.
ang pangit kasi ng back biter eh. yan ang pinakaaayaw ng mga pari at mga madre sa mga parokyano. kung pari ako, baka nga mas masahol pa sa reyna ang sermon ko.
hindi ibig sabihin palalampasin mo ito ay kabaitan na. sometimes you have to stand firm kahit marami pa umagainst sayo. kasi at the end of the day nasabi mo sa sarili mo na ipinaglaban mo dignidad mo, bakala ka amn o babae. its not about pride. its only logical that there should be sincerity on the part of the defendant. or else there is no use for apology. null and void.
i dont take sides immaturely and i dont have any personal problem with the dfendent whatsoever but the backbiting incident is really uncalled for. Thius is not anymore kung mabait ka o hindi. this is about being human- logical and rational.
I too disagree with reynz i some matters. may sinulat pa nga ako dito about my disagreement with her perception about doc. pero in this case of hers, she is darn right, though I dont agree with some use of her language, pero style nya yun eh. this is her blog as we know it before hand.
inay chuva hindi kita sinesermonan ha. hahaha. gusto ko lang iklaro yung sinabi mo. hahaha peace tayo kaibigan.
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@bluep,
ok lang yun chuva and bluep to disagree with me, nagkataon pang sinasara ko tong thread na to.
in any case, i changed my mind of closing this thread, baka sabihin just because you guys are disagreeing eh isasara na.
as i have said dun sa response ko ki Yuga:
“i don’t expect much about getting what i want, ironically, from someone who wrote an article about Ethical Blogging and Parenting stuff, I suppose she knows what’s right and what’s wrong. If not, then maybe she’s got a 13 year old ghostwriter? Who knows.”
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$ bluep – hay naku – no worries ako dyan kuya bojee. i understand exactly what you mean, and it’s good to stand firm when your principles are attacked. but forgiveness doesn’t care about principles. if principles supercedes forgiveness – then there is something wrong. and if there is no public apology – who really cares? why dwell on it? i disagree with backbiting as well, it’s low and immature. however, why would you stoop down to that level? isn’t what’s going on here the same as what’s going on at twitter or whatever that is?
my suggestion had nothing to do with ‘kabaitan’. i’ve heard ateneo de manila, washington university, temple university at kung ano ano pang matataas na paaralan. say your peace and then move on. you have to let the person know that what they’ve done is wrong and it will be an injustice if you didn’t. if they take it, fine – if not, it’s fine as well. it doesn’t mean that you’ve compromised your dignity. don’t worry ateng, kaibigan pa rin tayo. i still recommend letting go of this issue.
$ mahal na reyna – alam ko naiirita ka sa kin dahil sa stand ko on this issue. let me re-phrase my words to – accept the ‘offer for a truse’. if she wants you to detail the issues, do so. this may be just purely a misunderstanding and it could be cleared in an instant. she may not really understand what it is that broke your bubble. and if she did and she’s acting innocent, that shouldn’t be your problem. if you lay it out, and she provides you her reasons – maybe magkaintindihan kayo. but until then, you may not understand kung anong sinasaloob niya. yun lang po. *biglang yuko at baka tamaan ng lumilipad na koronang may kalawang*
just like you, i am just saying my peace and from here on out – i’ll let it go.
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hay naku chuva
me grey goose ka pa dyan? kahit lambanog?
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hindi greygoose mader, nag-re-redwine aketch ngayon.. sarap pala pag nag-redwine ka, bumobongga ang ingles ketch!
pangalawang baso na ko… mamaya… sholog na ang beauty ko.. pero, may rubbing alcohol ako.. gusto mo ng shot?
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gaga! nung isang gabi, tinikman ko red wine mo! ba’t bumubula? bangag ka na naman? pepsi lang yan eh!
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Before I attempt to give any suggestion, I read the entries several times. Read other related entries because if you will advice on a piecemeal basis, you are not doing any good to the advisee.
If you have read only one sentence and you tell a person to accept the apology, what apology is being given?
She will apologize BUT, will somebody tell me what WILL and BUT mean? Is there already an apology offered?
Will is future tense and BUT is “on the condition”.
Now tell me, how could reyna tell her, okay i accept the apology.
Tell me people. Because I do not waste my time commenting without first knowing the issues, have researched and data for back-up.
With regards the issues being asked, doesn’t she understand what BACKBITING is? when it is all over the first blog made.
The twitter may have been blocked but you do not have to be reminded that everything can be captured in a screenshot and save in the file. You can not deny it.
Piecing together all these twits, you can make a story. You do not have to be a nuclear scientist to know who is being discussed and what is being discussed. Twitter messages are interlinked, block your own, your messages will still appear in other twitters. See those buttons there previous, include others, etc.
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fafa bluep,
Hindi ko minamaliit ang akech beauty ano. Ang laki-laki nga ng bilbil ko eh!
What I am saying is I’d rather not attract black propaganda from the Queen Blog-Giyera. That’s what she does against her enemies. I can’t take that… I can’t take it take it! I’m not Ruffa Gutierrez nor am I Viveka Babajee.
reynz,
Hindi ko kaya gawin ang ginawa ni mama connie reyes este veneracion who voiced out against mama noemitush:
http://houseonahill.net/technology-internet/disclosure-policies-carlocab-and-blogging-ethics/
http://houseonahill.net/family-parenting-kids/sometimes-defense-is-not-enough/
Kayech ano nangyari after that? Naku mass resignation ang mga kamponechis ni mama noemitush sa pinoymomnetworks na project ni mama connie (with her). Tapush now mama noemitush is going to teach a new breed of mommy-bloggeras how to blog. Mga bagitang fillet minion este mignon! Charing!
Kung paulit-ulich ang warlavu sa blogokingdomness at ang involvelaboo ay isang tao lang, mag-asklavoo ka pa ba kung sinech ang salarin?
Kelangan pa vang i-memorize yan?
As long as we let her get away with what she’s doing it will just happen again and again and again. Kaya, with all due respect to chuvachienes (are you my long lost sisterette?) ituloy ang laban!
Manalo matalo beauty pa rin akech!
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chuckchak!
interesting. thanks for the link. i’ll read them.
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chukchak!!! guuuuuuuuurrll!! ka-aliw naman ang mga kowments mo ditetch! ha-ha! talagang pasugod si sister!!!
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sabi nga ni BLUEPANJEET, GOLIATH HAS FALLEN!!!!
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hahaha malen iba ka talaga kung humirit. Saludo ako sayo. kung hindi ka lang prone sa nosebleed liligawan kita sis LOL
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Chuckchak!!Parang ansarap mo kausap, YM mo ko…daliii!
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fwede bang ako na lang mag apologize in behalf of her para matapos na ang war of worlds na ito? Pramis, SINCERE ako…with all my of heart and soul!
Yung masaya naman!!!! Wiheeeee! Labyu reynz!
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hahaha
Bluep, YM mo ko daliiiii! hahahah
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ano YM mo?
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bakit ganun, kayo lang ang nag-YYM – - hmmp. echepuera pala ko ditetch!
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YM mo din ako chuva..daliii!!!
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hmmm… chuvaness mga loveliness ba yong mga YM na yan? bluep ha?
chuva, hayaan mo na sila sa mga loveliness YM na yan noh?
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